“You are brainwashed into thinking whatever the government tells you is legitimate.”

I grew up in a house that believed in many conspiracy theories. The JFK assassination, the first walk on the moon, the Pearl Harbor bombing; these things came along with the idea that somehow the government had created or facilitated each incident in order to progress their own agenda.

It is easy to fall into this pattern of thought. After all, our government doesn’t seem to inspire much confidence. Rather than prioritize what is best for the citizens, politicians make getting re-elected their top goal. After the disheartening gun control vote in the senate, it is easy to reach the conclusion that the citizen’s views don’t
matter.

“Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely.”This quote by 19th century historian, Lord Maxim, is well known; certainly, I grew up reciting it. But more recent research has shown that there is a connection between someone’s moral identity (how strongly they feel it is for them to be fair, generous, caring, etc.) and how they use
power (more in this article at Smithsonian.com)

And I would take this full circle. My hypothesis is that the lower a person’s moral identity, the more likely they are to believe in conspiracy theories under the assumption that if they were to gain power that is how they would act.

As a parent this begs the question of how to build strong moral identity in our kids. But as a citizen it makes me wonder whether there could be an objective test we could give to politicians before we elect them. It could become part of their running platform; Nominee xyz scored a 99% on the moral identity scale: Paid for by friend of xyz. But
would there be a conspiracy to fix the results so the ‘right’candidate would be elected?

Phew! To be honest, I’m not sure what my moral identity score would be, but I know my laziness score is high... and conspiracy theories are simply too much work for me.

“Could you watch my stuff for me?”

Uh… No!

Let me be clear. It’s not that I think you are a bad person or that you have an evil intent. But I believe if we all followed the rules we would be able to help avert disasters such as on Monday.  

We all know the rules, right? Don’t leave your bag unintended. Don’t ask others to watch your bag, or accept items in your bag from strangers. Don’t carry prohibited items through security. Over time, though, we have become lax about living with these regulations. We think it can’t happen again… until it does.

But I have noticed there is another reason why people dismiss rules. Some people seem to feel above them. This happens at our school all the time. There is a strict visitor badge rule… even if you are just dropping something off to the classroom. Everyone must check in and get a badge. And yet frequently I see the secretaries chasing people down the hall and insisting. Come on; they have enough to do without having to monitor parents.  

Are these the same people that park their old SUVs in the energy efficient vehicle only spots? Just saying… And don’t even get me started on rules around pick up and drop off. It doesn’t seem to matter how many times the Principle sends out reminders about this process, many people just do it the way they want to do it.

In order to live in a civil (and safe) society we give up certain rights: such as jaywalking, or cutting in line, or running red lights. We agree to follow the rules, because if we didn’t, if everyone thought they were above the rules, society would fall apart.

  So don’t ask me to do any of these things. And, don’t expect me to stay silent if I see a bag without an obvious owner, or an unusual package just lying around. Whether at the airport or at Starbucks I go by the rules.